Christian  - how can you hold lost unbelievers to the same standard you hold yourself and other saints to? When they do not love as you do it's because they do not know Me, saith The Lord.  How can they love as you love? Their hearts are full of Satan. Don't expect what they cannot give. Continue to show them My love so that you may be called the children of My Father. Shine as a city on a hill - not hidden but publicly obeying My Father's will. You are My example of all they are not. Heart's filled with Me overcome heart's filled with sin - light conquers darkness  - remain steadfast in My live for you, saith The Lord.