I personally don't have (or haven't had) nearly as much of a problem putting my sins on the Cross of Christ for Jesus to bear as I have putting the sins of those who sin against me on my cross - the cross I must pick up and carry daily (Luke 9:23). My cross is far more painful and heavy to ME than the Cross of Calvary. 

Sure it hurts me to know that I hurt Him - especially because He didn't deserve it - but, I cannot ask Him to bear my sins if I'm not willing to bear the sins of those who sin against me. 

Following Jesus,  when He's carrying His Cross, isn't easy, but I cannot follow Him to Heaven if I'm not willing to first follow Him to the Cross. Besides,  my miniature cross is nothing compared to His - He took on the sins of the whole world  - all sim ever committed, from Adam to the last soul judged and found wanting. I only must bear the sins of the few who sin against me - so far, no physical harm (we first must be able to endure soulish and spiritual wounds before we can endure physical wounds to His honour) - what a privilege! To walk as He walked in this life! I gladly bear the wounds of those who have sinned against me, who hate me - gladly I say! I do it out of love for them - just as Jesus bore my sins out of love for me.

But oh the rewards! For if I follow Him to the Cross  - laying on my own cross willingly as He did on His - then I can follow Him out of my tomb, then the stone of a hardened heart will be rolled away and I'll receive a heart of flesh - able to love like Him - then I'll be able to breathe on others and say "receive ye the Holy Ghost", then I'll be able to follow Him where He rose - leaving the pull of this world with all it's wicked ways, far behind  - up where the air is pure - where I breathe The Holy Spirit in and out - up to my Heavenly Father  - able to abide in His presence forever more because I walked the trail Jesus blazed for me.

So yes - I'll endure my cross - my temporary pain - the sins of those fallen and without hope, as well as the sins of my brethren in Christ  - hoping they'll likewise bear my sins on their crosses - so we may all become bound together by the love that overcomes and transcends all hate and wickedness,  the great and mighty love of our great and mighty God! How can we partake of His love and freely receive it and not love and forgive others? No matter what anyone ever says or does to me, from here on out, I will gladly bear their sin - I will not seek revenge or give hate and bitterness safe harbor in my mind or heart. I'm free! Hallelujah!